First, check yourself out ahead of time. Before you are called up to speak, your audience is watching you, assessing your credibility and poise and confidence. Hit a restroom to see that no piece of clothing is our of place, and no hair is waving in front of your eyes.
Second, that being done, sit in a way that says I'm comfortable and in control. Look pleased. Smile. Listen intently to others who speak before you. Lean into them, and enjoy what they say, and provide positive feedback: shake your head in agreement, and smile in appreciation. Because you are a great audience member, you will be more liked when your time to speak comes.
Third, when you are introduced, BEAM. Listen with pride. Rise slowly from your seat, remaining still for a bit to show that you are in control, then walk confidently to the podium or the designated performance area. Keep your head held high, and smile away.
Fourth, turn to listeners with the warmth and control of a benevolent god, who knows that his people are waiting for him/her to bring them the joyful good news:)! Actually, I often have those i coach practice out loud saying to themselves, "I am god, and i love you, and i am here to make it all better."
Fifth, keep on smiling, making eye contact with select people to your left, to your right, and dead center. I'll talk more about eye contact later.
Sixth, take a pause before you begin; never rush into your presentation. Enjoy the anticipation in their eyes, as your smile makes them smile.
Seventh, begin, always remembering that you are the one who is there to spread the good news; news you love to spread.
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