Friday, July 17, 2009

WIDE AND NARROW--eye contact: part six

THE WIDE AND THE NARROW

Some people have a problem with frozen eyes--you know the kind of eyes that never seem to change their expression.

Sometimes they are frozen wide; sometimes they are frozen squinty. In any case, they say nothing because of their constancy.

One technique I use with people, to help rid this problem, is called the wide and the narrow.

Pretend there is a gorgeous baby in front of you.

Look at the baby with a big smile and say: Look how gorgeous you are.. 
Then, see the baby smile, and feel all loving inside, and squint your eyes and say. "I love you baby."

Wide eyes: to show the excitement.
Narrow eyes: to show the love.

Visualize the baby's face, and flip flop back and forth, working your eyes!

This exercise is a start!


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